On Parenting (an 'extra' needs child)

My wife and I are the proud and sometimes 'confused' parents of a soon-to-be three year-old (September 2009). His name is Dakari and he was officially diagnosed with cerebral palsy (CP) shortly after birth. As such, he hasn't started talking or walking (on his own) just yet. I'm gonna be honest and say that sometimes it is extremely challenging especially with communication. Dakari still communicates by crying and making other incoherent sounds. He is very clever and independent despite these setbacks. It's amazing how he tries to do everything by himself just the same. He does get quiet irritable when things are not going the way he wants. For example, because of fine motor skills issues, he has a hard time with activities that involves placing small objects in containers. After a while, he'll get angry and start crying while at the same time still trying to complete the task. Sometimes I help, other times I don't. I don't because I think it might be useful for him to complete tasks on his own without his parents. Also, I try not to let him feel that because other kids can do it easier/faster than he can that he should always get help or shouldn't complete the task.

We're all on an interesting journey together and intend to make the most of it.


Dakari trying to shoot his 'air' gun (recommended by occupational therapist).