Activity #18 - Organized a Father's Day Breakfast & Scavenger Hunt

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There are still strong, positive, real men in Bermuda (and elsewhere). It is for this reason that Kari and I, through my other blog razorsanddiapers.com planned a Father’s Day breakfast and scavenger hunt at the Bermuda Aquarium, Museum & Zoo (BAMZ) on Sunday, 20 June 2010. The event, dubbed Celebrating Fatherhood was for fathers and their children and was extended to the entire Bermuda community.

With the increase in crime and violence in Bermuda, it is very important that we organize and offer events aimed at strengthening families and highlighting the various roles and contributions of (real) men.

The Father’s Day breakfast and scavenger hunt was a celebration of fatherhood. We recognized men for their contribution to family and community, and challenge them to stop watching from the sidelines and as Mahatma Gandhi says, “Be the change you want to see in the world.”

The event included a buffet style brunch and featured brief but informative presentations on positive fatherhood/manhood. Fathers got an opportunity to publicly affirm their children and expressed their love and aspirations for them (
download One Thing Special form here). The main activity was a scavenger hunt on the BAMZ property. There were a number of give-a-ways for the fathers as well as the children. Kari was a little sad he didn't receive any gifts - I didn't have enough but he got over rather quickly. We both had lots of fun!

About Razors & Diapers
My blog Razors & Diapers is an initiative with the main aim of inspiring, equipping and transforming men into better sons, brothers, fathers, husbands and mentors. The website (
www.razorsanddiapers.com) features articles and candid video discussions with individuals (mainly men) who are willing to share their own experiences and give insight on improving man’s contribution to society.

I believe that through motivation and a sense of individual responsibility, men will commit themselves to accepting their roles and following through on a path to REAL manhood with a sense of pride and accomplishment.

Razors & Diapers is an initiative in direct response to the growing number of immoral, unethical and illegal acts being performed by men. The need for change in today’s society is undeniable. Through repeated failures of families and the development of destructive habits, men have lost faith in the possibilities that await them if they are successful in putting their lives together. To accomplish this goal, men must be involved in programs that promote their importance and reinforces their responsibilities to society starting with their own families.

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Activity # 17 - Make Muffins

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Recently, I returned from a business trip and was on the bed getting a little shut eye (had to wake up like 3am that morning to catch a 6am flight) when I was startled by the banging of metal. I opened my eyes to see Kari with a muffin pan calling me and pointing to the kitchen. I really thought I was daydreaming. I couldn't believe he actually wanted to make muffins. While he enjoys preparing meals with us, he and I have never actually baked anything before. He was obviously curious about the muffin pan and I was only interested in sleeping. So what did I do? I did what any father who enjoys his child and wants as little regrets in life as possible would do. I won't tell you it was easy to get out of bed but I'm glad I did. I mentioned in an earlier post that our toddlers do not know or understand when we are tired but they know they want to spend time with mommy and daddy.

It took him about 5 minutes of banging, calling and pointing to get me out of bed. However, we eventually started our baking. I pulled up a chair to the counter for him, got the ingredients and set off on our little adventure. Kari enjoys adding ingredients to dishes. He added a dash of this and that, broke a few eggs (his favorite thing now), and mixed it all up.

We both had fun. As with many activities, after awhile he lost interest so I had to finish up on my own. The muffins turned out pretty good and we all enjoyed it.